Relationships Ending Shyness Is Not About Learning Social Skills
Many therapists and coaches who are attempting to help individuals overcome their shyness have taken the view that:.1. It is not possible to fully over come it,.2. That is has something to do with having inadequate social skills and,.
3. That social skills classes help you become more socially adept and therefore help you feel less shy and less anxious.It is my strong opinion that shyness has absolutely nothing to do with social skills!.I know this first hand as I suffered from paralyzing shyness most of my life but no longer. As hard as you may find this to believe it is no longer inside of me and I feel completely free.Deep inside each individual there is already "built in" an image of how they would like to see themselves being with others.
If you are a person who has a shyness problem just go inside and allow yourself to bring up a vision of how you would like to see yourself be in public.I'm sure you will have little if any trouble doing this.This internal image is what I call your Spontaneous Genuine Self.You see "knowing" how you want be is not the problem.
The problem is "being" that way, isn't it?.The thing that blocks one from being that way is the internal set of beliefs that frighten you out of simply relaxing and being your preferred Spontaneous Genuine Self.This set of beliefs becomes "preprogrammed" at an early age and acts like an internal "horror" movie that interferes and distorts your perception of the external world thus making you think that it is more dangerous than it actually is.It is only by releasing this "internal movie" that you will be free to relax and be your Spontaneous Genuine Self.
A new modality called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) (MRP) which I administer over the telephone was designed exactly for this purpose. If you would like to experience a taste of freedom today kindly visit the web link below and set up your no risk introductory consultation..Dr. Nick Arrizza is trained in Chemical Engineering, Business Management & Leadership, Medicine and Psychiatry. He is an Energy Psychiatrist, Healer, Key Note Speaker,Editor of a New Ezine Called "Spirituality And Science" (which is requesting high quality article submissions) Author of "Esteem for the Self: A Manual for Personal Transformation" (available in ebook format on his web site), Stress Management Coach, Peak Performance Coach & Energy Medicine Researcher, Specializes in Life and Executive Performance Coaching, is the Developer of a powerful new tool called the Mind Resonance Process(TM) that helps build physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well being by helping to permanently release negative beliefs, emotions, perceptions and memories.
He holds live workshops, international telephone coaching sessions and international teleconference workshops on Physical. Emotional, Mental and Spiritual Well Being.Web Site: http://www.telecoaching4u.
By: Nick Arrizza, M.D.
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